How to succeed at the Game of Life

We often hear people talk about the "Game of Life".  In this game of life, as humans we ALWAYS only have two goals, SAFETY and SIGNIFICANCE. Safety means: Emotionally, we feel our needs are equal to other people's needs and feel comfortable asking for them to be met. Physically, we are free from violence and intimidation, … Continue reading How to succeed at the Game of Life

8 signs relationships won’t last

Divorce no longer just applies to the traditionally married, it now applies to the break up of any relationships where we were once invested. These days kids can divorce their parents, and many people describe the loss of life long friendships as a divorce. They describe a division of assets right down to who gets to keep … Continue reading 8 signs relationships won’t last

What pets do for us…

This will start serious and end funny, so follow to the end, it will be worth it. Many of us have learned that people are dangerous. As a result, we are busy trying to people please or avoid conflict, because we desperately just want to be safe and be ourselves. We are secretly on edge underneath … Continue reading What pets do for us…