Understanding mixed feelings in relationships

Any relationship we invest in will bring up mixed feelings. The more we invest, the more vulnerable to hurt and disappointment we become and the more likely anger will come up when people fall short of our expectations and how we think things should be. One common response to these mixed feelings is to try … Continue reading Understanding mixed feelings in relationships

60 Shades of Grey!

We like certainty! We create absolutes out of uncertainty all the time! We turn things that are not definitive at all, like marriage, religion, politics, right and wrong, and we make them into absolutes!  We insist that when WE say "I do" it will be forever, even though the divorce rate is over 50%. Then we … Continue reading 60 Shades of Grey!